Have you ever been in love?

Adithya Sasikala

Hi guys,

Have you ever been in love? I write a lot of love poems and mostly people thinks that it’s my personal experience but I’ve never been in love.

Yes I know it’s hard to digest because I write about love a loooot 😅. I just observe a lot, I’ve observed people’s emotions and their journey through love. That’s how I come up with my poems and they are never my personal experience.

I have never been been in love with a person doesn’t mean that I am not in love. I am in love with everyone and everything and it’s totally crazy at times. I love the sun the moon, sunrises and sunsets. Dark sky, rains, puddles, petrichor, pink, blue, rainbows, lights everything means everything. But I love God the most. So in that perspective I’ve been in love my whole life. And other than that I’ve never been in love with a person. 😂

So what about you guys? Have you been in love? Or Are you in love? Or are you like me always in love😁. Annnnnd if you can do share your love story with me so that I can make that into a poem and immortalize it😌. He he he he 😉. I’m waiting for your answers 😘.

131 thoughts on “Have you ever been in love?”

  1. I am in love. I met him at a difficult time when I had almost given up on love. We’ve been together since – married and madly in love with each other. He is my life’s greatest gift ❤

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  6. You write about love very well for a person who’s never been in love. But love is not just the love of a romantic nature. We experience love through out our lives. With our parents, siblings, friends and pets.

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    1. I think that if you love someone then there is no I was in love but there’s only I am in love. So in that sense maybe you haven’t found your love yet but you may find it soon.

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  10. Too many people try to put a definition, to label love it seems… love is the spirit of the heart and cannot be described… 🙂

    “Love is the expansion of two natures in such fashion that each include the other, each is enriched by the other.” Felix Adler

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  12. Wow that’s great of studying about people’s love and writing such memorable poems. I had been reading your blogs past 2 weeks. I had thought that you were deep lover and understand how it matters to you and then you would pen it down. This post proved me that understanding others feelings need not necessarily have undergone the same feeling themselves.

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  14. I’ve had a queue full of crushes, never approached any of them. I shy away for some unknown reason.🙁 Not them. Ahemmm
    There’s still time I guess. Never lose hope. 😑
    And I cannot beleive the fact that you’ve never been through it.🤔😀

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    1. I try to stay away from it as much as I can as well. 😂 You don’t lose hope there definitely is still time and you’ll find the right person soon.

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  22. I am very much, truly in love & don’t ever want to imagine my life without my husband… But I know what you mean about writing from observations. People often comment on my poetry as if it is from my heart instead of viewing the world & those around us…

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  24. I have been in love.. Now I just love the idea of love for others hehe. I’m a hopeful romantic. I love to read poetry about love, I still look at the moon and the sunrise/sunset.. I’m not looking for love for myself, but I think it’s a beautiful thing 💕

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    1. Love sure is a beautiful thing. God is love and because we love God we can never be devoid of love. And most of us truly are a hopeless romantic

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  29. It’s a pretty long quote, but I so wanted you to read this!

    “Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”
    ― Bob Marley

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  31. Yes , I’ve been in love. I have loved, got loved back. I have hurt, got hurt back. Got hurt pretty bad actually but anyway I don’t regret it 😇❤️

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  33. Love. I have been there watching it leave a person slowly and ending up at nothing. But life goes on. Doesn’t it?
    And love too goes on. It’s bad to shackle love in relationships for it sets you free and doesn’t bind. Love is multidimensional, it is everywhere around you.❤️
    And it the most beautiful feeling ever!

    Love of God created this mankind and He put a little piece of love in everything He made so everything around us is LOVE💙

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  39. I have been in love. Experienced the ‘love of my life’ love, the all consuming, rose tinted, run away into the sunset love. Felt the heart pounding when I heard his voice, heart skipping with anticipation when i was about to see him. The holding hands, constant amazing sex, just gazing at him kind of love. That led to living together, raising children, the laughs, the connection, being together. The one man that affects you the most, the effect on your life is forever. The longing for him, the dreaming about him blah blah….
    The vulnerability, the doubt, the wanting to please but never good enough, the volatility of happiness and hurt. The distance, lack of communication, the secrets, lies, complacency and taking for granted…
    Love doesn’t last. I do not regret it. Beside my children at times it was the happiest I’ve ever been…but….it has also caused me the most pain.
    I still believe in love and I think everyone should experience it…….

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  40. I was in love ! But unfortunately it was one sided, well it still hurts coz he still lies to me ….. But Despite everything i respect the feeling love ! Coz its just just… wonderful !
    However sry for the late comment…..

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