Hi guys,
How are you all doing? How your 2018? And how is 2019 treating you?
My 2018 was actually very good. It was fun, I had some good times, something very wonderful time. But 2019 has not been so nice. What 2019 taught me so far is that you can’t be happy always. And that you don’t need a reason to be sad, it just happens. Holding up through sadness is hard but holding up makes you strong and it teaches you things and I hope I am learning the right lessons. I have so many poems in draft and I don’t feels like posting them or completing the poems I have half written.
So while going through all this the only thing that’s going through my mind is that, if someone else is going through the same I would love to help them too. It’s tough this is tough but it’s a phase we all go through isn’t it. So tell me guys how are you ? And is there something you all want to share then the comment box is all open for you? Comment the happy and the sad things you have encountered this 2019. Let’s share our happiness and sadness and help and love each other.
With lots of love
Adithya.
Everything will pass at its own pace. Have faith and patience and be strong. This sad phase will end soon. Take care.
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Thank you very much dear. I am actually okay just a bit lost. Hope you are well. How is 2019 working out for you.
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I am glad to hear that you are okay. And getting a little lost sometimes is good. It actually helps us in understanding ourselves a bit more. Alhamdulillah, the year has treated me well so far.. Insha’Allah it will be good to me further too. Take care.
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You too take care of yourself dear
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wishing you a year full of smiles! 🙂
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You too smile dear.
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🙂
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Happy New Year🌸
There will always be ups and downs. Keep going and have faith in yourself
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Thank you Abhi. Wish you have a great year.
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True.
You don’t need reason to be sad but to be happy you’ve gotta find thousands of them.
Yeah, holding up sadness teaches you to be strong and you learn to fight your own fight.
It’s a tough phase ,I’m still confused and it scares me.
But I think we’re stronger than it, Adithya.
We’ll get pass it.😎
Take care!
Your tomorrow will always be brighter than today.
😇 😚
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My tomorrow will be brighter than today. This is one of the best thing someone has told me today. Thank you so dear. We will fight ans we will win. How is your 2019?
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Not exactly best but definitely not worst.
It’s just passing.
🙂
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I hope you have a great year
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May have have happy and peaceful days ahead dear Aditya 😊 Sometimes, things go smoothly, whereas sometimes we have to face tough things. Understanding both of these as just temporary phases in life, keep faith in lord, then you will get strength from lord to stay calm in both good and tough times 😊🕊❤
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Amen to that. God will definitely help us and guide us. How are you dear?
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Yes dear, surely..Doing good with lord’s grace dear 😊
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You know what being indian means. You can have many new years in one english year. So no sad year is going to last a year.😊
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Ha ha 😂 yeah. Thank you sunil
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Don’t worry dear. Everything is going to be okay from now onwards😊
Sometimes it is like that, but that doesn’t mean you would be sad always. This time would definitely get over soon…..may you have great days here after ❤
And by the way… COMPLETE YOUR POEMS FAST AND PIBLISH THEM… There are so much people who loves you and are waiting for your creations… KEEP GOING ADITHYA
Take care❤❤
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Awwwwwwwww thank you Shilpa. How are you dear? How’s is 2019? Thank you very much for your love and support.
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Welcome and I doing good dear😊
My 2019 ! Uff… From the first week onwards I am dealing with a heavy fever😢… It’s somewhat better now but still I need to continue with those big tablets which I hate the most😠
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Oh that’s sad to hear. Get well soon dear.
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Awwww Adi, i wish I could hug you.
I was feeling the same 2 days ago, for no particular reason.
I believe that we have to feel sadness and restrictions to feel happiness and freedom afterwards.
I’m sorry that you feel that way, it is very depressing, all seem to have lost taste and beauty. Be strong girl, it will pass, unless there is a real reason behind this sadness. You’ll see 2019 will be better than 2018, more laughter, more joys, more fun, you just have to wait for the right moment
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Aww thank you dear. I wish that you have a great year ahead as well. I’m so sad to hear that you are also going through something similar. Let’s just hope for the best now.
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😘😘
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Isn’t this what’s life dear?
Some sad days and then some happy ones but the dilemma is that gloomy days feel like forever!
Always keep in mind, “This too shall pass!”
Sending love and blessings xx
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Thank you so much Soiba. I hope you have a great year ahead.
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I like your honesty.
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Thank you 😊
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For me 2018 was a good year, although it was at the same time a fairly difficult year. I had a lot of thoughts going through my mind, and to be honest I was depressed almost everyday at one point, I even often cried to sleep, without much reason.
Nevertheless I think it was still a good year for me, and 2019 has been an even greater year so far. I haven’t completely gotten over my depressing thoughts, there are still times when I feel sad at the smallest things. But I believe this year is a year of blessings and I have started to take notice of all the good things that’s happened to me, even (or especially) if they’re small. I’m trying to see and appreciate the ways my family and friends or even acquaintances love/help me, trying to see things that I couldn’t or refused to see before, and so far I think 2019 has been a very great year indeed!
I don’t know what you are going through, you may be having a much tougher time than me, and it isn’t something that can be resolved simply by saying “be positive” or “it’ll be alright”. But I do hope you can see the love everyone has for you! Even for us on this website, even if we can’t be by your side physically or help you with your problems, everyone is expressing their love and concern for you in their own ways. For my part, I have always loved the poems you write!
I believe this is a year of blessings and you’ll be blessed greatly too!
(Sorry for the long chunks of words hahaha)
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You can’t feel bliss without some pain. At some point you’ll feel happy and relieved, just put your trust in God, He’s the healer. Bad things don’t last forever.
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Ha ha it isn’t that long. I’m really very very happy that you wrote this. It do give me much hope. You had a bad 2018 and 2019 is treating you well, so I am having hope that maybe things will change around for me as well.
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Hang in there as better days lie ahead of you. I am keeping my focus on three guiding words for 2019: faith, family, and health. So far, I am pleased with another year.
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That is the best three words. I will also keep that in mind.
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I’m feeling the same as you these last couple of months. Happy one day then suddenly sad for no reason at all. It’s tough but had become part of my reality as you are probably to aware yourself… We cope the best we can & how for more good days 😌
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That is true. It’s like it’s natural to feel this way now.
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I don’t think I will ever heal from my wife dying. The wound is too deep
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I am sorry to hear that
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Hey hope you are feeling better. This is a moment and it shall pass. Stay happy and charming
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Thank you Shantanu 🤗
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My absolute pleasure
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As my friend always says ”It will come to pass”.
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Yes I hope so too
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Yes we all go through it..part and parcel of life… Sending much love & light your way 🤗
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Thank you very much Kranti 🤗
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😊
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Me too not a good start, I don’t know what will happen 😢
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We’ll get through I hope.
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Hope 😢
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Hi, I hope you are doing well. We all have our moments and phases in life where we are sad, not quite feeling like ourself. God will help you through it.
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Awww ❤
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🤗
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Mine 2019 is same as yours.
Sad & demotivated for no reason at all.
😅
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Yeah it’s kinda frustrating.
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Towards the end of 2018 my uncle passed away..2019 so far is going good except for the polar vortex/freezing weather here in the East Coast.
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It’s hot here but nothing else is good
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Hello Adithya, the day and year become more beautiful when interacting with special friends.
Thank you for being there
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Yes
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